What Should A Girl Wear On A First Date

One of the important questions that loom before us on our first date is what we should be wearing? Giving the right impression on the very first date is vital as it would decide whether you will meet the person in the future or not. Therefore the way you look and present yourself matters a lot, no matter how much your date would deny the fact that looks are not on his/her list of qualities that a potential partner should have. The first date used to be a formal affair when both met up for dinner at a posh restaurant. However, with the changing times, this popular practice has become passe and dinner at the local diner or going to a ball game or a music concert and other such activities have replaced the formal affair that the first date used to be. No matter where the two of you meet, it is very essential for you to dress up appropriately. Here are a few tips for you to get the right look on your first date.

Girls are almost paranoid before the first date. After the date is planned, they spend endless hours at the mall searching for the right outfit, the right pair of shoes and the right accessories. Another important aspect is makeup and jewelry. Makeup and jewelry should complement your looks and not dominate. Excessive use of makeup would make you look like a clown and going over the top with jewelry would make you look like a portable jewelry store. Either ways, the guy would find it very embarrassing to walk in your company.

If your date plans to take you to a posh and classy restaurant for dinner, it would pay to go light and subtle. The best possible dress on such an occasion would be a cocktail dress. As it would be a dinner date, colors like black, maroon, beige, forest green, white and deep blue would go better than their lighter versions. If you think that the cocktail dress would be too flashy, the LBD or the little black dress is an evergreen option. It is a safe way to ensure that you look great without thinking too much. Another possible option is a fancy white shirt with a classy pair of trousers or a smart little skirt. Keep makeup to a limit so that it accentuates your features. Give heavy accessories a miss and don something on the lighter side.

On the other hand, if your date plans to take you somewhere casual, think of denims, a bright and attractive top and sneakers to go with it. In this case you can accessorize according to what you might do on usual days. Avoid something that may look too revealing as it may give a wrong impression. Don’t forget to pay attention to what you do to your hair. A girl’s hair is a great turn on for men and if done the right way, it can do wonder to what he feels about you. Don’t forget a good perfume as guys are first attracted by the way a girl smells. Most often they relate a girl to one particular fragrance.

Just keep in mind, that you wear only what you are comfortable in.

The Difference Between Relationship And Friendship

What is the difference between a close friendship and a close relation? Most of us believe that when friendship becomes stronger, it may turn into relationship. The truth is different. Think about the kind of talk you have with your friends. You are always very open about your failures and shortcomings. You are not shy of talking about your problem and asking friends to help. In a close friendship, you expect to know everything about each other.
How about a relationship? Think about animals. They also show their best side to their mate. We human beings keep lot of secrets away from our partner. We do not want to tell about our failures and shortcomings. We also try to impress our partner when we are in romance. This difference between friendship and relationship is very deep. We calculate our moves in a relationship but are very open in a friendship. We are like a child in friendships but behave like an adult in relationships.
If you remain inside your boundaries in a relationship and not try to change it into a close friendship, you will have longer relationships. Telling all does not help in relationships.

How to Show Your Man That You Love Him

Sometimes men think saying the words “I love you” are just words. Men tend to look at actions more than words. This is a list of 20 ways to show your man that you love him without ever saying it.
The meaning of “I Love You” goes much further than just a few simple words. Sometimes actions speak louder than words. Love comes with many feelings that are from our inner self. It is emotions and what we are capable of giving, that shows the true meaning of love. I am not talking about it from a financial way either. Money cannot buy true love. Below is a list of just 20 ways to show your man that you love him without ever saying it.
Tell him that you are proud of him and appreciate all that he is doing or done.
Respect him, his thoughts and opinions. Everyone is different.
Get over it if he’s wrong about something. He’s only human and will learn from his mistakes. Agree sometimes.
Be affectionate. Hold his hand. Sit by him. Even in public. Men like to be petted and adored.
Write a note saying that you love him and put it in his pocket for him to find later.
Make him a cup of coffee in the morning and bring it to him.
Surprise him with breakfast if it’s not a normal routine.
Tell him that you need him and thankful for having him in your life.
Give him a meaningful hug and kiss as soon as he gets home from work.
Take a shower with him and bathe him slowly. You can’t show intimacy if you are rushing.
Fix his plate when supper is ready and maybe light a candle or two.
Share watching his favorite movie. Even if you don’t like it.
Play a song and dedicate it to him.
Cook his favorite meal.
Show him that you care. Listen to him and give him the attention that he deserves. Ask him if he’s alright.
Have some patience when your man is stressing out. Just let him work it out. It will soon pass.
Reassure him that everything is going to be fine when things are looking down a bit.
Talk good about him in front of others when he is around you.
Refrain from saying “I WANT” everyday. Men are not money making machines. They work hard. Ask him what does he want or need.
Most of all, show him that he can count on you and that you will always be there for him.


The above list is just to name a few and all are very easy to do. If you love your man truly, this will come natural. Remember that men are different than woman when it comes to showing some love but we all have feelings that are the same.